Reach out to a parent, your mother especially. You may be called on to help with domestic affairs, repairs or may be consulted on renovation projects. Learn a new skill or take some time to be out in open. Find peace with family. Your charisma wins you friends. These long lasting bonds will help you in your work. Avoid making career decisions as you still need more time to think. Spend time with family and share your hopes and fears. Also seek help from like-minded people. You can have everything you want if you will just help other people get what they want.

You’re right to set the bar high, but are you getting too lost in the weeds of a project or plan? Maybe your unease stems from a legit concern. If you don’t have confidence in your team’s ability to ace this assignment, pump the brakes. You might need to sub in more experienced players or hold a meeting to get everyone’s performance up to snuff. Before you reflexively interfere, however, make sure you aren’t micromanaging. Sometimes you have to let people flap their wings in order to learn how to confidently fly.